And a brief Madness update, of course.
It seems that Our Miss Madness had decided to ditch her weekly power-fuss and replace it with daily mini-fusses. While the intensity had dropped off drastically (thank goodness) the frequency was a bit trying as was the fact that they would only happen for us. There’s nothing like picking up Maddy from her grandmother’s, hearing about how happy she was all day, then getting home and hearing her scream at the Sandman for an hour or better. Of course, the fusses didn’t really get started until we were preparing dinner and she didn’t get a full head of steam until the timer went off. So we got used to ‘dining alone together.’ That’s where one of us eats dinner while the other soothes the Madness, then we switch. Usually by the time we were done eating Maddy was finally napping in someone’s arms. It was during this 30 to 45 minute break that we got to do all of the household chores that can be done very quietly or out of earshot; clean up dinner mess, load/unload dishwasher, laundry, tend to cats and dog, pack the next day’s diaper bag, prep bottles for midnight feedings, mow the lawn. Vacuuming? HA! Not likely. BUT… the last two days have been 100% fussless. She’s napping better through the day and is thus a much happier Maddy through the evening. The only thing we had to give up is a full night’s sleep. Now instead of sleeping until 6:00 a.m. she wakes up at around 2:00 to eat then we have to wake her up at 6:30 to get her ready to go to Grandma’s. Small price to pay if you ask me.
And now, back to our regularly scheduled programming.
So how big is a baby in week 10?
The average baby weighs about 11 pounds and is 22 ½ inches long this week. When you see her every day you don’t realize how big Maddy is getting. I know that she’s got both of those numbers beat and if there’s one thing I knew Our Miss Madness would be its better than average!
A baby’s development progresses from the head down and from the center outward. So they should have much more control of their head and torso than their arms and legs. By now they may be able to sit up with the help of a parent or a Bumbo chair. When sitting, their heads will likely be in constant motion as they try, mostly unsuccessfully, to look any direction but downward. During ‘tummy time’ they can do mini push-ups, and when on their back they can move arms and legs in unison and ‘bicycle’ their legs. Maddy sits in her Bumbo chair on the dinner table while we’re eating and her head does indeed flop all over the place most of the time but she will raise her head for surprisingly long periods to make eye contact or look at her ever present Itsy Bitsy Spider. Tummy time is still very aggravating for her and in lieu of mini push-ups she does something that looks a lot more like throwing a tantrum. On her back (especially on her changing pad) she’s always bicycling/running in place, not so much moving in synchronicity. It’s actually quite comical how fast she ‘runs.’
Language development is moving right along now. Their brains can now process emotional changes, interpret changes in tone and intent, differentiate between words and sounds, and even recognize and respond to their names. Recent additions to their ‘vocabularies’ include growling, squealing, and chuckling. We know that the latter is true with Maddy, her chuckle makes her parents misty-eyed. As for responding to her name, it’s tough to tell because it’s entirely possible she’s just responding to the person speaking it. We’ll have to make a concerted effort to test that claim. As much as our cats and dog do things they should not be doing, we have no doubt at all that Maddy knows the difference between coddling and correcting! Her first words are going to be “Quit it (insert any of our pets’ names here)” or something perhaps a bit more colorful! Even though they are beginning to know the difference between sound and words we should still repeat her ‘statements’ back to her because all of the sounds that she learns to make now will eventually be used to make words.
By now a baby will be sleeping through the night or should be really close. ‘Through the night’ means five to six hours straight. Maddy sleeps like an angel, so much so that we’ve actually had to check her pulse some mornings. Many times we’ve put her to bed wide awake and we’d hear her ‘talking’ and kicking for an hour or so only to drop off for night. Only one time did we have to rescue a screaming baby after we put her down and that was last night at 9:15 when the smoke alarm went off to let us know that we had a candle that wasn’t burning correctly.
And now, a little about how we can help babies learn and play.
Toys are going to be ever more prevalent and babies can now grasp them. Make sure they don’t get a hold of anything too small. If it fits through a toilet paper tube it is a choking hazard.
Babies can see colors now and they are very exciting. The brighter and more vivid the better, pastels all kinda blend together so they aren’t as fun. Colorful toys and the pictures in baby books and even magazines are great fodder for entertaining a baby.
Peek-a-Boo is a good game to play now. It involves a lot of fun, smiles, surprises, and it will teach them to call out to you to get your attention when they see that you are not making eye contact with them.
Playing the reaching game now may start to pay off. Babies have a little bit better hand-eye coordination now but it needs to be much better. They may make an actual attempt to grab something placed in their range or bat at a hanging toy.
That’s all we have for today. Come back tomorrow for some pictures.